Guest Post by Paige Michaelis, Realtor
Ken Caryl is an incredible neighborhood where I have been privileged to live for the past three years. I have always found it interesting the extent to which people go to stay in this neighborhood. Either making long commutes to keep their kids at Bradford K-8 or doing what is lovingly called the “Ken Caryl Shuffle” — where one moves “Up” to the North Ranch or the Valley or moves to an upgraded home in their same neighborhood. It is such a common thing, and believe me, I get it, Ken Caryl is in demand. But, it can be expensive, and during divorce, it can be difficult to hold onto one’s home.
If you are in the process of divorce or are considering, here are a few options that may be helpful in deciding how you can stay in Ken Caryl:
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Guest Post by Emily Wishall, embodiment coach and certified Rolfer
When it feels like your life, as you currently know it, is falling apart, how can you come back to your conviction and confidence in who you are as a feminine woman? How do you get to rediscover your identity outside of marriage and outside of your family unit? Continue reading “How to Reclaim Your Power and Identity After Divorce”
Guest Post by Shannon Rios Paulsen, LMFT
The issue of dating arises in every session of “Co-Parenting After Divorce” I facilitate. After working with thousands of families, I have come to believe that dating and remarrying are among the biggest risk factors for children of divorce. Statistically, children of divorce are two-and-a-half times more likely to have adjustment and achievement issues than children from intact families. Dating and stepfamilies DO impact children. It is true that a new partner can sometimes impact children positively, but it is also true that this aspect of their parents’ divorce can cause stress and challenges for children. Continue reading “What You Should Know About Divorce and Dating With Children”
Guest post by Mike Olson of GO Colorado Realty
Did you know that every 13 seconds, someone, somewhere files for a divorce? When you look for a home with your spouse, you don’t think about the possibility of a divorce. You think about the fun things about owning a home like being able to decorate it with your favorite colors and style, making dinners together in the kitchen and the amazing closet to fit all your brand name shoes. The fact of the matter is that 41% of all first marriages end in divorce, and the rate is even higher for second and third marriages. There are several important things to consider when you file for divorce, and perhaps one of the most important is what will happen with your house. Continue reading “Don’t Be Duped by Divorce: What to Know Before You Decide to Sell or Keep Your House”
Maintenance is Colorado’s word for alimony. It is an important way to help someone get back on his or her feet. On the other hand, sometimes a person has stars in their eyes about a big maintenance number, not realizing the downsides. I have seen many a client who paid another firm top dollar to go to court and obtain a maintenance award, only to walk away with very little in his or her pocket. Continue reading “12 Reasons Maintenance is Not What You Think”
Guest post by Salina Tornabene, mortgage loan officer with Guild Mortgage
There are subjects rarely taught in schools that indeed, shape our future as we venture into the “real world.” “Credit 101” isn’t covered in our educational system and in the end, albeit an ugly truth, credit has the potential to define our lives. It certainly costs more money to have no or bad credit than to maneuver through your financial world with good credit.
I thought I would break it down just a bit so – so the mystery is dispelled.
Here are some credit basics you should know.
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Hospitals do not let people show up and do medical procedures on their kids. If you are closing on a house, your mortgage company will not let you do your own title search; you have to hire a title insurance company to do it. You cannot drive a car or own certain weapons without training and a license.
But guess what you can do? Waltz into court and handle the hearing on your divorce without any training much less a license to practice law. This is something people with years of education and training find challenging. I am tempted to say, “Good luck with that.”
Except a huge percentage of people do have to do this in order to protect their family, finances and future. Continue reading “How to Do A Court Hearing For Your Divorce”
When you got married, you probably never imagined a sheriff’s deputy showing up at your door to serve you with divorce papers. Unfortunately, that’s often what happens. And now that it’s happened to you, you probably want to know what to do next.
We can help.
If you need to know what to do when your spouse files for divorce in Colorado, here’s how to get started.
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So you made the big decision to file for divorce. Or maybe the decision was forced on you because your marriage has become intolerable — it’s no longer a “real” marriage.
What now? It can feel overwhelming to even figure out how to begin the divorce process. But we can help.
If you want to file for divorce in Colorado without an attorney, here are the first three steps to get started.
Continue reading “VIDEO: How to File for Divorce in Colorado”